Remember that mind-numbing, debilitating pattern from which you escaped. Don’t let this happen all over again.
Communal Gaslighting
You’re either for the communal gaslighter or against him. There is no in between. And because it’s easier to go with the flow than against the grain, victims often stay where they’re at much longer than they should with particularly damaging results.
When the Mask Falls Off – Run!
If you see the switch flip and this new person completely transforms from a kind, loving partner to a self-loathing abuser, chances are it will be very triggering as you’re reminded of what you left behind. The first time the mask falls off, it’s time to run.
How to Avoid Revictimization
If you’ve been victimized by a narcissist, chances are you’d do anything do never let this happen again. If you were lucky enough to get out, the most terrifying thing is probably thinking about having to hit the rewind button and go through that hell all over again. So, how can you avoid putting life […]
From Pedestal to Pushed Away: Transitioning from Idealize to Discard
The devalue and discard stages are inevitable. If you feel you’re no longer valued by your partner – completely unseen, even – it’s time to reconsider whether the partnership is worth your emotional investment.
Societal Gaslighting
As you consider current and historical leaders, it’s likely some will come to mind that you believe have used societal gaslighting as a form of control. It is particularly difficult to oppose these individuals.