Step Eleven – Pulling It All Together
In the Eleventh Step, we review our journey as a whole and assess who we were, what we’ve become and everything we’ve learned along the way. We take an honest look at where we are physically, mentally and emotionally as a result of everything we’ve experienced from beginning to end. We should have a better understanding of what it means to self-reflect and how to handle difficult situations as they arise, through meditation, release and acceptance.
When we have a better understanding of how to release negativity, we are able to be more empathetic toward others and can open ourselves up to utilizing these learned skills to better serve others. You will probably realize that your sense of self-mindfulness has improved not only as it relates to your own self-esteem, but how you relate to others. Effectively managing stress and remembering the law of
attraction can do wonders for the mind, body and soul.
Take some time to ensure you’re ready to effectively coach others through their struggles. Make sure you’ve done the work needed internally. And, be honest with yourself. If you don’t feel confident enough to reach out and help, don’t. Hang in the moment. Be happy with how far you’ve come. In this stage, we often begin to get an itch to formulate creative endeavors for spreading the good news.
We want to tell the world about how good we feel, and give hope to others! This may mean you decide to start a blog, a webpage, a YouTube channel, a self-help piece. You may decide to speak publicly on the issue, or start a MeetUp group. You could volunteer at a women’s shelter. Start a nonprofit. The possibilities are truly endless.
Ask yourself:
-Who should know about my experiences?
-How can I share my happiness with others?
-What do I already enjoy doing that can help me work toward this goal?
-Who can help?
And, if you haven’t experienced this yet, no worries. Everyone’s different. The important thing is that you made a commitment to yourself for self-improvement and followed through. We need to practice self-love before we can genuinely love others.
Take a breather and be thankful for the present.