If you’ve been victimized by a narcissist, chances are you’d do anything do never let this happen again. If you were lucky enough to get out, the most terrifying thing is probably thinking about having to hit the rewind button and go through that hell all over again. So, how can you avoid putting life […]
From Pedestal to Pushed Away: Transitioning from Idealize to Discard
The devalue and discard stages are inevitable. If you feel you’re no longer valued by your partner – completely unseen, even – it’s time to reconsider whether the partnership is worth your emotional investment.
Societal Gaslighting
As you consider current and historical leaders, it’s likely some will come to mind that you believe have used societal gaslighting as a form of control. It is particularly difficult to oppose these individuals.
Belittling Those Deemed Inferior Reinforces Control
Narcissists tend to take full advantage of those deemed inferior and especially those inadvertently forced into the position of providing their services to the narcissist.
Why Are You Documenting Everything?
If you’ve reached the point of wanting to document, take a step back and ask yourself why you think this is necessary, particularly if you do not have an escape plan in mind.
Why Do Narcissists Use Gaslighting?
Emotional abuse is the narcissist’s most reliable weapon. It’s a surefire way to avoid injury.