Being in a relationship with a narcissist is damaging, and sometimes we don’t immediately understand the depth of the damage until long after we’ve gotten the courage to leave. When we’re in the relationship, we are constantly being groomed and manipulated into serving our narcissistic partner. So, doing so becomes second nature. We are never […]
All is Fair in Love and War – Not for Narcissists
Narcissists are not fair. They don’t understand the definition of fairness. By definition, fair as an adverb which means “without cheating or trying to achieve unjust advantage.” This is completely foreign to the narcissist. In his world, fair means the polar opposite — “cheating and trying to achieve unjust advantage”, and “unfair” to the narcissist […]
Tips For Leaving
Let’s talk about leaving — deciding you’re really going to do it. You’re going to pack your bags, say sayonara to your captor. It’s been real, but see ya later. Simple, right? Not so much. Not at all, really. Leaving a narcissist is perhaps the toughest thing you will ever have to do. Don’t expect […]