The psychological control the narcissist is able to assert over those who share his intimate space is uncanny. He uses his cleverness and confidence to will them into submission and convince them to do his bidding.
Three Common Forms of Gaslighting
All gaslighting is unhealthy and leaves a lasting effect on the recipient. In fact, it tends to leave emotional scars long after a victim has been physically released from their trauma and is one of the primary reasons narcissistic abuse victims endure post-traumatic stress disorder long after the fact.
Confidence & Cleverness: The Narcissistic False Façade
Narcissists don’t have a lot of confidence – really. Not at a deep level. But they possess the cleverness to make others believe they do.
Understanding Hindsight Bias
Hindsight bias is considered distorted thinking primarily because you made a choice at the time that was based on the knowledge you possessed at that time not the knowledge you have now.
Grandiose Narcissists: Appearance is Everything
Grandiose narcissists tend to get a ton of attention – they go to great lengths to make sure of it. They are extremely charismatic and charming and others are drawn to them. This is precisely why they are particularly dangerous.
Malignant Narcissism: All Kinds of Toxicity Wrapped into One
Malignant narcissists are considered the most dangerous kind, primarily because they possess traits evident in the other three subtypes. They are both good-looking, like the somatic narc, and intelligent, like the covert narc, as well as able to draw in others and tend to have loyal followers. A historic example of a malignant narcissist would […]