Although real grief work tends to occur beginning in stage four of the process, the first three stages are equally as vital. They offer a way of protecting the victim until they have separated themselves enough from the loss to cope with the meaning behind it.
Covert Narcissism: But, Can You Prove It?
Coverts are those who could have used their intelligence for good and probably have gotten equally far in life. However, they get the most supply from their deceitful ways.
Individual Gaslighting: Control & Isolation
The psychological control the narcissist is able to assert over those who share his intimate space is uncanny. He uses his cleverness and confidence to will them into submission and convince them to do his bidding.
Three Common Forms of Gaslighting
All gaslighting is unhealthy and leaves a lasting effect on the recipient. In fact, it tends to leave emotional scars long after a victim has been physically released from their trauma and is one of the primary reasons narcissistic abuse victims endure post-traumatic stress disorder long after the fact.
Confidence & Cleverness: The Narcissistic False Façade
Narcissists don’t have a lot of confidence – really. Not at a deep level. But they possess the cleverness to make others believe they do.
Understanding Hindsight Bias
Hindsight bias is considered distorted thinking primarily because you made a choice at the time that was based on the knowledge you possessed at that time not the knowledge you have now.