Coverts are those who could have used their intelligence for good and probably have gotten equally far in life. However, they get the most supply from their deceitful ways.
Three Common Forms of Gaslighting
All gaslighting is unhealthy and leaves a lasting effect on the recipient. In fact, it tends to leave emotional scars long after a victim has been physically released from their trauma and is one of the primary reasons narcissistic abuse victims endure post-traumatic stress disorder long after the fact.
Confidence & Cleverness: The Narcissistic False Façade
Narcissists don’t have a lot of confidence – really. Not at a deep level. But they possess the cleverness to make others believe they do.
Grandiose Narcissists: Appearance is Everything
Grandiose narcissists tend to get a ton of attention – they go to great lengths to make sure of it. They are extremely charismatic and charming and others are drawn to them. This is precisely why they are particularly dangerous.
Communal Narcissism: You’re Either with Me or Against Me
For communals, you’re either for them or against them. There is not in between.
How a Narcissist Uses Each Love Language Against a Victim
Narcissists take note of their partner’s love language to use it against them in an effort to assert their own.